> This material is adapted from the Basic Seminar Textbook, pages 37–40. Prepare to be inconvenienced. they asked. When the person engaging in this kind of obstructionist behavior is a peer, rather than someone you have authority over, this can be tricky to navigate. To reject an authority because you don’t respect him could be likened to tearing up a speeding ticket because you didn’t like the attitude of the police officer who issued it. In a society where parents treat their children as completely unmanageable and out of their control, it’s no wonder why so many people grow up with no respect for employers, elders, the government, or anyone else. If you make a sensible suggestion to a poor manager, he or she is likely to ignore it or find a way to put you down. We’re supposed to pray for them and show them the respect due as people appointed by God (1 Timothy 2:1-3). Putting him up on a pedestal is not what’s going to win him over and get him to prioritize you. But if you let yourself react defensively, you’ll be weakening your own position and signaling that a little push-back rattles you. I can’t get her to do anything.” Or, “He wouldn’t leave the house unless we let him bring this toy.” Who’s in charge here? Today, it may be used as a more general expression of personal freedom and individualism.. — 1 Corinthians 12:14, 25, 26 . When you are in a relationship with God, he provides you with protection and favor. In a similar way, if we don’t follow direction from Jehovah and those to whom he has given some authority, others may suffer. I believe that kids who are taught to unquestioningly obey authority are at a higher risk for abuse, because they believe they must go along with whatever an adult tells them to do, and if they don’t they will be in trouble. Before we say “Amen, people need God in their lives,” though, we have to look in the mirror. “At work, the most qualified person does the job. It’s very common to wonder if you deserve the authority you’ve been granted, but you’d better start telling yourself that you actually have earned it. If your children act good for a week, give them a treat to reward them for their hard work. 'Don’t speak for me': Yale doctor battles CNN anchor over effectiveness of hydroxychloroquine ... “As I’ve said, you have to treat the right people. That’s a luxury that we’ve been afforded in our day and age of multiple congregations within a given radius and easy transportation, but there are places where Christians have to stick together and work things out, because their church family is all the support they have in the face of persecution. I've grown up." Why does it seem like all of a sudden there is a total disregard for authority rising up in our society? Here’s how to figure out handle this kind of resistance from someone you need to rely on in order to get your own work done. I don’t complain to anyone in authority because until very recently no one took my problems seriously. Don't do it only for the people you like and respect--that's easy--but also for the ones who drive you crazy and those you don't even know. Hebrews 13:17 reminds us that our church leaders will give an account for our souls, and so we should obey them and submit to them in a way that makes their role joyful rather than filled with grief. I appreciate your input, but I want to ask you to understand that at times I may make different decisions than the ones you might make. You might feel like you’re expected to solve this kind of thing on your own, but if you try the above and it’s not working, a good manager will want to know about it. I certainly realize how difficult this one can be, and I don’t follow it perfectly, but to ignore it or make excuses as to why we don’t have to show certain officials respect is to reject God’s authority. 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When the person engaging in this kind of obstructionist behavior is a peer, rather than someone you have authority over, this can be tricky to navigate. To reject an authority because you don’t respect him could be likened to tearing up a speeding ticket because you didn’t like the attitude of the police officer who issued it. In a society where parents treat their children as completely unmanageable and out of their control, it’s no wonder why so many people grow up with no respect for employers, elders, the government, or anyone else. If you make a sensible suggestion to a poor manager, he or she is likely to ignore it or find a way to put you down. We’re supposed to pray for them and show them the respect due as people appointed by God (1 Timothy 2:1-3). Putting him up on a pedestal is not what’s going to win him over and get him to prioritize you. But if you let yourself react defensively, you’ll be weakening your own position and signaling that a little push-back rattles you. I can’t get her to do anything.” Or, “He wouldn’t leave the house unless we let him bring this toy.” Who’s in charge here? Today, it may be used as a more general expression of personal freedom and individualism.. — 1 Corinthians 12:14, 25, 26 . When you are in a relationship with God, he provides you with protection and favor. In a similar way, if we don’t follow direction from Jehovah and those to whom he has given some authority, others may suffer. I believe that kids who are taught to unquestioningly obey authority are at a higher risk for abuse, because they believe they must go along with whatever an adult tells them to do, and if they don’t they will be in trouble. Before we say “Amen, people need God in their lives,” though, we have to look in the mirror. “At work, the most qualified person does the job. It’s very common to wonder if you deserve the authority you’ve been granted, but you’d better start telling yourself that you actually have earned it. If your children act good for a week, give them a treat to reward them for their hard work. 'Don’t speak for me': Yale doctor battles CNN anchor over effectiveness of hydroxychloroquine ... “As I’ve said, you have to treat the right people. That’s a luxury that we’ve been afforded in our day and age of multiple congregations within a given radius and easy transportation, but there are places where Christians have to stick together and work things out, because their church family is all the support they have in the face of persecution. I've grown up." Why does it seem like all of a sudden there is a total disregard for authority rising up in our society? Here’s how to figure out handle this kind of resistance from someone you need to rely on in order to get your own work done. I don’t complain to anyone in authority because until very recently no one took my problems seriously. Don't do it only for the people you like and respect--that's easy--but also for the ones who drive you crazy and those you don't even know. Hebrews 13:17 reminds us that our church leaders will give an account for our souls, and so we should obey them and submit to them in a way that makes their role joyful rather than filled with grief. I appreciate your input, but I want to ask you to understand that at times I may make different decisions than the ones you might make. You might feel like you’re expected to solve this kind of thing on your own, but if you try the above and it’s not working, a good manager will want to know about it. I certainly realize how difficult this one can be, and I don’t follow it perfectly, but to ignore it or make excuses as to why we don’t have to show certain officials respect is to reject God’s authority. Oh good grief this is one you can spend days answering and it’s been discussed, researched / studied and experimented with many times over the years. 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